(Tips) Top 11 EXCUSES guys use to be "no strings attached" with you.

by - Thursday, April 16, 2015

I hardly share my personal experience on relationships with you all because it was supposed to be "PERSONAL" but what inspired me to compose this blog post is an article I read online.

I am not saying all guys are bad but some of them do things intentionally - Trying to get you on the bed. You know what I mean. I say it, I mean it. Yada yada, like what you saw on dramas and etc.

Well, I will just share some of my personal experience then.
*Not in numerical order*

We shall begin with:

1. "I want to concentrate on my studies."
Why do I see you with new girl friend after telling me this "joke"?

2. "My parents don't allow me to be in a relationship."
Oh yea? I think you posted a picture of you and your new girl friend together with your family members? If you want to lie, please do it properly. Stop posting pictures on Facebook then.

3. "I don't want to ruin our friendship."
A good and healthy relationship should be friendship + love + family hood.
What do you meant by ruining friendship again? BS!

4. "I am not suitable for you."
Who are you to determine who is suitable for me, myself and I?
Back off!

5. "I just got out from a bad relationship."
Can you please find a better excuse than this?
Who hasn't got bad relationship before?

6. "I am busy now."
"BUSY" shouldn't be an excuse at all.
Time management is all depends on youself.
I would rather you telling me that I don't deserve your time than telling me you are busy.

7. "I don't want to think of relationship right now. I just want to focus on my career."
Are you trying to hint me that I will ruin your path to success?

8. "I want to take things slow."
Seriously? So why were you kissing me?

9. "I am enjoying my single life."
Nobody can be lonely forever.
Guys, this is a very dumb excuse.

10. "I like you but I can't be in a relationship with you."
This is definitely a big NO-NO.
It is a sign of him wanting "No Strings Attached" kind of relationship.


11. No words. Just ignore. Don't even bother to find an excuse.
Irresponsible guy. You won't be happy to be with such a guy.

Personal Advices:
  • Don't be one of somebody's options
  • Be with someone who knows your true value and true beauty
  • Don't force things out no matter how much you like him but he doesn't
  • Love yourself more than you love him (not being selfish but try to pamper yourself more often than usual)
  • Breakups or falling out from love is no big deal. Nothing can be worse than losing your life.
  • No such thing as "COMPLICATED" status. Either "SINGLE" or "BE IN A RELATIONSHIP". "COMPLICATED" is just to give yourself the false hope.

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